On Monday I finally get to have a meeting with my Psychologist. I am going to try (as much as I can) to talk about the difficulties I have with Therapy most notably my boundary issues (which many people on here have said that I struggle to see) and whether I go to Therapy for the right reasons or not. I would also like to get into the issue of touch in Therapy and what she thinks the appropriate boundaries for that are. I also think that if she thinks that it is a good idea that I go back to regular Therapy to tell her what my preferences are (i.e. someone who is Female and not too much older than me) in a Therapist, there is also a chance that I might just meet with her on a semi-regular basis. Let me know if you think that is a good approach to take.
I can also tell you that I would estimate that she is at least 10 years older than me and I also know that she is married (since she mentioned her Husband during a conversation about beards when I was talking to both her and my Primary Care Doctor about beards

), so that should ease (but not by any means eliminate) any urges I may have with her.