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Old Dec 05, 2013, 04:43 PM
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Originally Posted by will i get married View Post
I have told him that "it ends here now" many times and each time I thought that okay it is over. But he keeps coming back and is too sweet to me and is too hurt by my words. It is just so hard to hurt someone we love so much.
It is such a scary and saddening thing to do especially since I will need to see him daily and maybe even interact for work. What can be done to prevent him from coming back once and for all? And also, I am worried that he might create a scene at workplace.

^^^^ That is how abusive people are . He can only come back if YOU allow him to. Stop stop the cycle.

YOU deserve a happy healthy relationship and you will never change him.

My advice .. dump him... stick to your decision and move forward in life .
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