I have been married for 15 years now and my husband has been depressed on and off for more of that time. He is on medication, but has refused any counseling or any therapy. It has really impacted our relationship, I am sure a lot of people have been there.

We also have at least one kid with Aspergers syndrome, some more suspected. Let's say life is never boring around here.

I always thought the relationship itself was fine and it was worth it, but i am starting to doubt things more and more

I started a blog to help myself talk through things and document things.

http://jabberwock42.blogspot.com/

Not sure what I am asking, maybe I want to know how other people decide whether to stay in a relationship or not? There are so many reasons to stay, but it feels like more and more reasons to leave.

How do you even make a decision like that?

Jabberwock