Yeah it's tough, I was abused for a number of years in a relationship I had. It's not that I was not aware, like memories of sexual abuse during early childhood. I was aware of the behavior. I just did not call it abuse. When a therapist did, I did not believe them. I felt mad. I thought the T was wrong. Like I had no problem with it, it was not the issue I was there to discuss (which was PTSD), but then this abuse stuff came up and was so annoying. I really did not want to deal with it. Because that was exactly when I needed the support of the person (the one abusing me) the most!