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Originally Posted by will i get married
Just still going on with my relationship...
Seems impossible to leave... It has improved - My L is kinder now - not exactly kinder but he doesn't use abusive words anymore but I keep feeling like he is treating me as a criminal - someone who's under constant watch 24x7 - I don't have time for myself at all  .. It is okay if things were good and we had only occasional fights but, he isn't going to be over my past and says that till we get married, he will go behind my past as he has the right to(???? really ???).. He said that we can live all we want after marriage but now he wants to make sure I am trustworthy and he keeps asking me to prove that I am where I say I am if he is not with me..
Sometimes I kind of believe him and submit to all he asks... At least he isn't using abusive words anymore - but I am scared to be with him... I want to leave - only then I know that I can do something proper with my life - but I am scared and don't know how to |
Hi friend, its same happening in my relationship.. but my husband is in your suituation and myself in ur husband's situation.. really ur husband will tryst u.. dont hide anything from him until he will believe u completely.. dont talk anything which related to anyone of your boy friends in front of him.. really its hard to believe dear.. still i am suspecting my husband eventhough he is good. its better to take him any pshycharist... really it will help you.. have some outing with him and let talk from base of your heart
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