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Old Dec 06, 2013, 10:18 AM
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Originally Posted by Koko2 View Post
Probably a man's values in general reflect in his preferences for physique. If he thinks that short people have no reason to live and wants his future sons to be on the basketball team, he'll value height. If he's prejudice against nerds, he'll prefer women with 20/20 eyesight or who wear contacts. If he values nature, he'll be attracted to women with natural hair color. As far as the size of her assets, my Freudian guess is it may be influenced by his mother's size.
I must argue that this is rather a simplistic view of men. I have no real preference. I like attractive women and sure there is some sort of criteria but its vague.

"if he thinks short people have no reason to live" ... well if he thinks that he is a pompous *** and discriminatory.

"... and wants his future sons to be on the basketball team..." Again really? A father that wants his kids to be "this or that" is just an idiot. I personally live to see how my children grow up and into their own identities not one of my own making. I had no criteria on what I wanted them to be -- short tall, muscular, or anything so ... it really has no effect on who I would choose for a mate. These are shallow men you speak of.

"...If he's prejudice against nerds, he'll prefer women with 20/20 eyesight or who wear contacts" Wow... way to be presumptuous. If he's prejudice against anything, why would a woman even want to date him?

"As far as the size of her assets, my Freudian guess is it may be influenced by his mother's size." interesting you should say this. Kind of almost made soda come out my nose... tbh. My mother is Japanese, 4'2" tall. 1. I do not typically find many asian women attractive at all. I look at fair skinned, caucasions and european women. all of my gfs over the years have been of various "dimensions" and a majority of them were at least 6 inches taller than me. Some of them have been thin, others not so much.

Please. The truth is, we are individuals and what a man prefers varies widely. Even up to someone like me that likes women and their personalities moreso than their physical appearances. This is not to say I don't like women I'm visually attracted to, but the truth is, if you're a wonderful woman and very sweet to me, intelligent, humorous, etc... I'll probably fall in love with you just the same.

:::steps off soapbox:::
Thanks for this!
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