I'm really sad reading this... Why would you even ask whom to choose?! :-( Does your son mean that little to you? Com'on you've only been with this fool for a year and a half... and he doesn't even sound like a winner... I vote get out now, cuz it's only gonna get worse!

I'm sorry if this is harsh but my father made the wrong choice... I hope you are brave enough to make the right one.