((((((((((((((((everyone)))))))))))))))))

WOW the responses to this thread have been great. It is a good way to get know where you guys have been and what has worked for you. Keep the stories coming

I think I personally need to get to know myself better and get more independent before I step into a marriage again. Sometimes if our self esteem is at a low we tend to pick people that will take care of us more and I am wondering if that is always such a good thing. In the old days maybe that is what a women should be looking for. My desire is to be able to say I can live without a man and be happy with just me, supporting myself and my son. I do love the man I am dating very much and I have no doubt about that but I am trying to think with my mind more than my heart, excuse the pun lol

Leslie