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Originally Posted by Useless Me
I am 48. It NEVER goes away. at best you learn to accept that God said we are supposed to honor our parent - so you suppress your anger and bad memories and pretend it didn't happen. But that leaves you with lifetime scars and unresolved issues.....
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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
Although your fiancee may only know or acknowledge this happening for a year, it's highly unlikely that it's just started. Usually when an adult is being abused by a parent it can be traced to longer term abuse and I don't think it typically will spontaneously start happening.
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Well before my fiancee's mistake her and her mother used to be close. And ever since those mistakes happened her mom did a 180 degree turn against her. But the advocate told her it's time to move out to get of the situation before it does get worse. Last August when it started.