Did she say that it was degrading or is it your conjecture? I am asking because, extrapolating from my experience, it may not have been her hating to be degraded - she might have simply found it stupid.

I have tried phone sex twice, with men off a dating site (whom I have not met), because I was trying to understand what draws other people to phone sex with strangers.

Both men tried talking dirty, and it was laughable, i.e. stupid beyond belief. But not degrading in the least. Just ridiculous. So I have stopped wasting my time on this comedic endeavor.

Granted, maybe with a boyfriend, rather than a stranger on the phone, there might be some interesting dynamic that makes dirty talk appealing.