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Originally Posted by learningtolive2013
My T also laughs and jokes around with me.. I think it keeps things simple and makes it more easy to open up.. I don't know if that is his "method" or if he just genuinely likes "chatting" with me?? I dunno.. I am on the verge of idolization and maybe a bad idea to have a male as a T??? I know you guys know what I'm talking about... I mean he's NEVER gave me an indication of being inappropriate or anything like that but you know BPD thinking... I read so much into things and try and analyze so much... I always think to myself if he shares/jokes with other patients as he does me? I dunno.. I'm being weird.. sorry.. lol
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All I can say is . . . . ROFL . . .my precise way of thinking. OMG! One time my used to be meds Dr., nice cheerful guy says to me, 'I like your PINK shirt you're wearing today' ~ dear God, that was the wrong thing to say haha, but he didn't know I was BPD then . . .maybe it wouldn't have mattered. It was just a compliment for crying out loud you'd think he asked to have my baby. At the same time, I don't feel like I know what's appropriate as to giving a compliment ~ sheesh.
Your T treats you well with therapy, is appropriate, and as long as you can stay focused on treatment ... that's what matters.