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Old Dec 07, 2013, 01:03 AM
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Originally Posted by feralkittymom View Post
Has anyone in the program spoken directly with either of your parents? I'm wondering if either of them could be persuaded along the lines of sending you home at this time would seriously jeopardize your recovery and then all the money they've already spent would essentially be wasted. Of course, it's not the reasoning that anyone wants to believe would work, but results are what you need right now.
Oh boy have they. My T has tried to reason with her and has put HOURS of time into it. One day, she stayed home sick from work. Had the stomach flu. My mother decided to email her like a million times, demanding various things or threatening to cut me off. My T told her that she is vomiting and unable to really do much, but my mom didn't care. T ultimately ended up calling me, telling me we needed a plan to shut her up and ensure that she doesn't demolish the rest of my treatment plans.

I contact my mom and she responds by contacting my T and then gets angry that I haven't contacted her. I did contact her. She just ignored it and called my T instead.

My mom literally isn't budging. She says if I'm not "a part of the family", giving me any more money at all is a waste. T and I have been super creative and literally have been shot down every time.
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