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Dec 07, 2013, 01:58 AM
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Originally Posted by healingme4me
She slipped the L word, in there. If you weren't asking yourself, these questions, I'd have more reason for concern. You aren't entering into these feelings, it seems, without much thought. Maybe, she's guarding her feelings, due to distance.  It wasn't the response you wanted, but, it's not a hopeless, response, either. Could be her, life perspective. Who knows? |
Actually it's quite the opposite. wasn't the response I expected, no but it wasn't in any way disappointing. Actually the fact she mentioned going out with me at all was 100% positive. We both know it's a long distance thing right now so no unrealistic expectations. Thing is, we definitely are fond of one another and we both know that the other is. It's mutual now.. of course I'm writing this after more things have been said back and forth.
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I'm sure, you are aware, like we all must be aware, at this point in life, of the 'fantasy effect', and until that initial meeting occurs, a little guardedness with emotions, is a good thing. Here, on PC, those of us, reading your posts and those reading your PM's, are hearing about your emotions, but it's better us, than her(as in too much, too soon type of sharing, kwim?)
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I think that the fact that we are far right now for me, is a good thing. communication is of utmost importance and right now that's all we've got. Nothing to get in the way of really getting to know her right now, if you get what i mean.. as in RL dating = a lot of distraction IMO.
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I think, it's a positive, that you shared, how you felt, with her. Good for you, or as they say in the UK, good on you. (many hours spent on UK mummies boards, when the boys were a little younger, I was invited, by a mum on an American board  )
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Thank you.  I always like to hear your thoughts
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