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Originally Posted by Roadie
I'm so so sorry. That's a very dangerous relationship--how are you going to handle it?
Please have a plan for dealing with your husband's drinking and your anger. Talk to your sponsor, if you have one.
You can't let it pass--do something but make a plan! Don't come back to him in anger, and do t even talk with him while he's drunk.
You'll be in my thoughts and heart. 
Roadie
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Thank you, Roadie. With Alanon I am not as angry and remove myself from the situation. I used to get him into bed or cover him with a blanket. Now I don't care if he passed out on the kitchen floor - that's his problem. I talked to my sponsor last night and she reminded me that he is sick and it's not about me. It's just still hard to not have strong feelings and hate. He is like a pig when he's drunk. I cooked a very nice dinner and he was too drunk to know what he was eating.
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