I am talking about a different guy. My guy friend Lance has Bipolar and Depression, he use to call me up all the time and I helped him through his problems cause he had no one to turn to. He seemed appreciative. Well I noticed he hasn't called or texted me, but I saw him a week ago and he was drunk and he was saying how much he loves me, misses me, and was all over me basically. He also said "I noticed you stopped texting me" It was a fun night.

But he told me he has all of these court dates, and literally 2 days later he was calling me from Jail, cause he got arrested for public intoxication or something like that. So he says. So I had to answer every call, and someone bailed him out but wouldn't pick him, so I picked him up. I noticed he seemed down. Well I asked him about his court dates and he gave me short answers.

He seems very brief with me. he called me to tell me about his court date but it was because I asked about it through text and he seemed tired and brief. He then a day later posted a depressing post on Facebook, and I texted him this "Hey! Saw your facebook post, if you ever need to talk i'm here, buddy!" He just responded with "Just a shi*ty day" That gives me the message like I shouldn't talk to him or something. I don't know why he is being distant and I don't know if I should take it personally. Honestly, I do cause I helped him before, so why wouldn't he tell me now? Why wouldn't he reach out to me? I am so confused, and I don't understand the distance. He seems very depressed and it seems like he is with holding info on me or something. Also I don't know if this is part of his Bipolar? I don't know if he is severely depressed, (please I mean to not offend anyone with Bipolar Disorder I don't know anything about the disorder) What should I do? Thank you for your input!