All I can say is . . . . ROFL . . .my precise way of thinking. OMG! One time my used to be meds Dr., nice cheerful guy says to me, 'I like your PINK shirt you're wearing today' ~ dear God, that was the wrong thing to say haha, but he didn't know I was BPD then . . .maybe it wouldn't have mattered. It was just a compliment for crying out loud you'd think he asked to have my baby. At the same time, I don't feel like I know what's appropriate as to giving a compliment ~ sheesh.
Your T treats you well with therapy, is appropriate, and as long as you can stay focused on treatment ... that's what matters.