I know I don't post here much, so weighing in on this is probably intrusive. But I just have to say:
I really really really hate reading someone express their opinions in absolutes and from a standpoint of "I'm right, and you're not." And I really really really hate reading someone tell another just how they need to change. I know I'm not at all likely to respond positively to messages coming from those stances. Why would anyone else?
Sorry folks, I was teetering on that last nerve before I logged in anyway, so I should just be quiet and breathe.
Anyone want to join me?
namaste
gg