it sounds like you miss the intimate closeness of the relationship and resent him for withdrawing from you. but it also sounds like, just from your user name, wannabefree, that you may be hesitant about committing to this relationship. you wanted to protect your assets from him and slow in getting the annulment. you didn't say what he still needed to work on but there seems to be mixed feelings here. its common to be feeling the way you are at the possible loss of a relationship, especially one as long as you were in. take care