One thing my husband made me understand was this -

In life, no matter how much you worry, things always work out in some way, shape or form. And, you always get what you NEED. The trick is a little preparation when looking at changing things in your life and keeping your eyes open for possibilities along the way.

Granted, we may not always get what we think we want or need, but, in reality, sometimes its a good thing we don't! Only hindsight is 20/20 and I find the fun of living is taking chances now and again....with a plan of course. Yes, it's stressful, but it can be exciting and fun too!

Wish you well and hope you can both come up with some ideas for your future....remember to breathe

Hugssss
Jean