because i've been divorced almost 17 years and i've managed to have a pretty full life without a fulltime man......i don't mind being alone and i love to travel by myself.

i read a lot, have animals, make jewelry, do photography, have a job and just generally like living alone. i date but we're far enough apart that we're never in each other's face.....for more than two or three days. and that's like maybe once a month.....and i really like that........he's just like me, so no one ever gets upset if one of us doesn't want to visit.....

i just really like my independence. for dinner i am having a black bean enchilada with green chile sauce and a big fried egg on top. i might not be able to float that past a husband.