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Originally Posted by blur
asia, you do sound like you are swinging to the other end and being avoidant like me.  i'm not really sure what a secure attachment with a T looks like. do you know? |
hahahahha yeah i am being totally avoidant aren't I?
I have no idea how to be securely attached, i think it means secure that the person won't hurt you intentionally, trusting them, being able to tolerate when they do make mistakes, not being overly worried about the relationship etc i literally have no idea how to get to that place.