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Dec 07, 2013, 11:14 PM
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Member Since: Dec 2012
Location: California
Posts: 2,248
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Originally Posted by Asiablue
I ignored it too Syra, i was enticed by the hope that i could be dependant on a therapist and i got hurt. I'm making sure that never happens again.
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I hadn't thought about until this thread, but I think I do too. There are things I just won't ask for. Don't want to be seen as too dependent. Don't want to feed my dependency and then deal with the aftermath. I hadn't even thought about that I don't call for help, or email between sessions, unless I want to schedule an extra session. And I wouldn't even ask if I could, because I'm too afraid the answer will be NO and I'll look like an idiot, or the answer will be YES and then I'll get all dependent again, or look like I'm playing games. I did it so naturally and protectively, I didn't even realize I was doing it. I'm glad I did it, but I wish I had been more aware. I could have talked about the issues.
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