Yes, you are not alone. My family, but mainly my dad say that they have no faith in me and cannot rely on me to be a normal member of the family. My dad says I'm so irresponsible that he can't even be civil to me anymore.
Your friend should not have said that to you. You are already your own harshest critic, so you don't need another negative person bringing you down. Ignore what she said. I dunno what her aganda was, but she didn't have your best interests at heart when she said that. No way!