I'd say to remember that drug abuse is an illness, it dose not excuse it, but once your hooked it takes a lot to come off depending on how deep you are in. When you are using drugs you are a completely different person, a traumatic event dose not help, I'm sorry for your loss. Try to get them into therapy, and yourself as well. To help deal with grief, everyone grieves diff..

Good luck....

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