What Kind Of Damage?

The kind of damage that emotional abuse causes!

What this mother has done to her daughter and is now doing to you as well.

When you've been brainwashed and gaslighted into feeling like you aren't capable of trusting your own mind and thought processes.

When, as an adult, you won't make your own decisions regarding your life, but still allow your parents (or hers) to do it for you ... Even if it ISN'T what you want or desire.

When you allow other adults to sabotage your life by interfering with your job, promotions, living arrangements, etc.

If you allow this meddling sow to come into your apartment, then it won't be your apartment for long.

Hope you are able to establish some extremely firm and clear boundaries pertaining to that!

If not, the damages will just continue to add up.

Hope y'all've got a good therapist to help you sort through all the debris so you can become healthy, independent, functioning adults ... Preferably without the meddling mother!

If that's what you want.

Who knows, you may be so enmeshed you can't live without the drama and trauma she keeps causing y'all.

Only y'all can decide when enough is enough!

Some people thrive on having their lives in constant chaos.

Maybe that's y'all, I don't know.

I'd rather live alone with absolutely nothing than to ever allow someone to ever disrupt my emotional and physical well-being ever again!

Good Luck & Best Wishes Figuring It All Out!