The oddest thing is that I'm not sure what to do or say to him now after he had shoved me into a cupboard.

Last night my mom and I were making cookies I told him no and he kept going for them. Then I grabbed the rack so he wouldn't grab them, they flipped and he still was going for them I said no again and then grabbed his arm saying don't grab them he shoved me into the cupboard and my mom started yelling at him. My mom didn't need to yell at him and which he yelled back say that us as the family was his fault for his anger. I told him no, your own anger is from yourself internally. If you have issues it would help to discuss. He said back yeah I do not discuss, that isn't me. And then he walked back to his room and had been in there the rest of the night. I didn't like my mom yelling at him either; she doesn't realize she places blame on people. She blamed him for knocking the cookies off and I told her no. I get frustrated because my family behaves this way. I need to speak to my mom about hers too.

Now I'm with him today alone until I leave to a Christmas party. I don't think I will mention anything about it to see if he says anything. I don't think he will apologize knowing him. He noticed what he had done though because the outer covering of a light switch broke too and he looked at it and said man and then that was when he walked back to his room.

I can apologize on my part of the situation too. I find this ridiculous over a cookie.

I do plan to move out when I get my jobs settled because I maybe getting a new job.