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Old Dec 08, 2013, 03:45 PM
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Originally Posted by BrunetteBabe1005 View Post
Hi Alokin! Thank you for answering! I do understand that if someone is in a dark place they don't want to communicate. When I am severely depressed I don't either, but I guess I am worried if he is talking to other people, except for me. I just hope it's nothing personal. Plus I just don't know if this is part of being Bipolar? (no disrespect intended) I guess I am just confused, and he dished all of his problems to me like months ago, and I helped him through it, so.... I don't understand, if someone helped you in the past through a hard time, then why not talk to them now? Unless I am part of the reason for his depression. Cause he did try to get with me a lot and I rejected. But it was for reasonable reasons. I told him I have 100% loyalty towards him and I am always here for him. But even like a week ago he went above and beyond in the sense that he was trying to kiss me, flirt with me, saying "I love you" way too much, etc. But thank you
Some things cannot be understood. I am telling you, for real, don't blame yourself. You are just going to run yourself in circles. If he is leaning on others that is his prerogative, you should not be possessive of him, that too will get you nowhere. Sounds like you are not into him romantically, but enjoy his attention, perhaps that is why he is withdrawing from you? You realize that kind of behavior is called leading someone on? I do not think you would appreciate someone treating you like that.
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Thanks for this!
BrunetteBabe1005