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Originally Posted by Angel of Bedlam
The push-pull is a self-fulfilling prophecy. The only way to stop re-living this pain is to stop pushing just so you can see them run back. Easier said than done, but finding a partner who knows this and is patient and kind can make this possible.
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This is very true. I push DH all the time. Now that he understands why I do it he does not let me get away with it, he will alert me to what I am doing.