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Old Jan 31, 2007, 02:42 AM
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More hugs for ((((((Annie))))))

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I usually spend must of my sessions mute and the write all of this stuff and send it to her

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">Maybe she is trying to move you to at least dip your big toe into a different form of communication: verbal. Maybe she thinks you've really done well on the written, which it seems like you do a lot with her, and that you are ready for the next step. Are you able to talk about any topics with her, like the weather? I'm not joking when I say that, really. Maybe just start talking about any old thing that is non-threatening, so as to get the mouth working.

Annie, I'm also curious, if you are pretty much mute during your sessions, does your T talk? I think a lot of T's would not talk either if the client won't, and the two of you would sit there silent for an hour.

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I'm gonna see her this week...and I'm really looking forward to that

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">That's good. To me, that means you are definitely ready for therapy.
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