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Originally Posted by Rosondo
Isn't that the worst though, when you are the only who will stand up to abuse and yet end up paying for it? So it's like either shut your mouth and go along with it or else we will kick your *** and try to overpower you. It becomes all about power. Like mom AND dad against the child. What kind of child can stand up to that and not get deeply hurt? It's inhuman!
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Yes, that is EXACTLY how I feel, it's ALWAYS 2 against 1 when my parents confront me. I know my mom always twist things when telling my dad, but the times she can't bc he is there as well when the issue happens, he'll take her side so he doesn't have to deal with her emotional abuse/wrath!! That's f***ed up....I'm your daughter! ! That's extremely hurtful sometimes it feels more hurtful than the initial abuse. I am seriously considering going to law school bc I want to help people that feel like they can't have a voice as well as knowing if the situation came up where it dealt with a legal issue and my mom thinks she knows about it, like she always does, that I can call her out on something. But I want to go to law school for the 1st reason i mentioned. As of right now, I pretty much loathe her and I'm okay with feeling that way.