Okay I'm new here and seriously need some advice...anything will help! I'm currently in a relationsip. I've known him since May 2013. We dated for awhile and kind of lost touch, well texted and talked on the phone, but didnt really seriously make it exclusive until september 2013. Since then it's been hot and heavy. He's basically moved in with me and my two boys ages 6 and 12. They absoutely LOVE him! I had no doubts introducing him to my children in september. He told me he loves me and wants this to be forever. I feel the same. Okay here lies the problem. He has a son, 18 mo, with another woman. He says hes not ready to introduce his son to me and my children yet. He tells me his parents dont want to meet me because they think i'm just another one of his many girlfriends who will come and go. My kids are starting to wonder why his child hasnt came around. I dont know what to tell them. He doesnt pay his ex child support because she doesnt make him. He does see his son though. He says he doesnt want to ask her about bringing the child around me because he doesnt wanna rock the boat with her. He tells me it will make his life very complicated right now. He asks me to be patient and when he's ready he will bring his son over. Why does he get the courtesy of waiting but I didnt? It really hurts my feelings! Am I being too sensitive about this? Is he right? Someone please give me some advice on this. I love this man, but this is really weighing heavily on me and is hurting our relationsip. I'm about to call it quits over this. I dont know what to do.