Oh, one other thing...(yeah, more stuff...)

About your appearance. Well, I'd venture to say that MOST women have some sort of insecurity about some aspect of their appearance. Heck, I know a woman who was absolutely gorgeous. In fact, she was a model. But ya know what? She didn't like her breasts. She thought her thighs were too big...

So, you aren't alone in this crazy society we live in.

But the thing is, appearance doesn't matter. Yeah, yeah, yeah... I can hear you objecting to THAT silly statement!!! But honestly, when it comes to the one you Love, it just doesn't.

In the years that my wife and I have been together we've both gotten a bit pudgier, a lot older looking, grayer and more wrinkled. But that's all just window dressing. I HONESTLY don't see my wife any different NOW than I did when I first fell in Love with her. I Love the person that is my wife. The package she comes in just doesn't matter one whit. Even the most beautiful 20-year-old person looks different with age. I know I certainly do. But I'm basically the same person now that I've always been. My wife is the same.

Anyway, I guess what I'm saying is this: When you truly Love someone, you accept them JUST as they are. I don't feel the need to change my wife in ANY way, shape or form. I Love her for who she is, AS she is. No changes necessary.