I get super jealous when I have the opportunity, which isn't very often. I can't tell who comes out of my T's office or another T's office because it's so far away from the waiting room. But I go to my college's counseling center, so I'll occasionally see advertisements for it around campus and immediately feel a kind of threatened jealousy. Which is absolutely ridiculous- I know there are plenty of people that need help more than I do, and I'm glad we have this service to benefit from. I also actually had to ask my friend if she would mind making sure that she didn't get my T when she decided to get counseling. I knew it would kill me to hear her talk about my T. At the same time, like Lamplighter, I would love to compare notes with someone that sees my T to see if we experience her in the same way. In general, I don't want my T to bring other clients up into conversation, and I don't spend time entertaining the thought of her caring intensely about others.