I have spent a good deal of time with my t outside of sessions, when she still lived nearby we used to go to the library and to get ice cream and burgers and on walks and to the park. She had to leave the country for a family situation two years ago, so i went to visit her last year. We went grocery shopping, out for lunch and dinner, sight seeing, etc. We had a lot of fun together. It is not weird at all for me to see t outside. I dont care what groceries she buys or what she eats for lunch. It might be because My husband is a t so i already knew that t's are just regular old people. I dont care if t is in old shorts and a tank top or a bathingsuit at the beach or in fancy work clothes. She is still the same person.