Thank you for your reply.
No he wasn't always like this. He was actually more of a caring, but jealous man. Now he is no longer jealous but wants to invite someone else another man in our bed he gets a thrill out if he says. I am in no way allow this ever! Just weird he used to be possessive of me now he wants to share me out?! I don't get that at all.
He isn't angry all the time he actually seems to only lose it when his chaotic family is going insane. The more he stays away from them the more he is happy, loving and close to normal. He is amazing with his kids and spends time w/ them. But once his family gets crazy its like he keeps all that anger in by not saying anything to them and I get the negativity.
The time we spend while he lived w/ me for over a year away far away from his family who hardly called him. He was sweet, kinds, loving, he never raised his voice or got upset just laid back to me perfect. Once I moved to his family area after first year living there I got why he acted the way they did they are all nuts. They push us apart they push him bad they call me names and try to ruin holidays. I never have met such craziness in all my life.
He is trying therapy and medication to help his mentality and he wants to keep his family meaning me and kids with him. My mom is coming for a visit I feel she will help and talk w/ him. I feel better and thank you for all your suggestions means a lot to read it and that you took the time to write to me thank you kindly.