makes so much since considering I am there with you on this one. My first question for you is what did you major in while at college? If your still interested in pursuing that career maybe volunteering to get your foot back in the door maybe something of interest and may bring down that anxiety, build up confidence and gear you mentally toward the job change a bit. If you feel you are at a stalemate with life because of the family building... lack of kid's talk to the hubbie about it and really make sure it's something you both agree on. If the hubs is unsure work together and start a little family planning and see where it takes you both
The hubbie time... Romantic night out... weekend get away.... spend time taking a walk. I find walking and talking to be very beneficial especially with all the wonderful decoration with the season and if you guys get a wild streak laser tag is awesome at letting out some of that extra energy lol.
I hope this sparks some good idea's for you. I am in the same boat you are with the job stuff and I wish you the best of luck as you travel this journey...