I run into my T a lot because his kids go to school my D goes to and the school I work at.. He does a lot of the dropping off, coming in to write notes for his kids.. So, I have seen him in the office, at school events, picking and dropping off.

If it is just me and him we address each other.. if he is walking with his kids we just smile. Last week, was the first time I walked into my office to find T in there and I did a double take, as I wasn't expecting to see him.. he saw me and smiled. I have gotten used to it by now.. I see his kids everyday, and his wife was a cafeteria helper last year and I was in charge of that schedule.