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Originally Posted by OutlawedSpirit
I wouldn't take it personally even if it seems likes he is talking to people other than you. I am trying to find a way to say this without it sounding bad, so if it does, I apologize, but maybe it's the fact that you're a cheerful person. When I am down, I may still talk to people, but someone who looks at life as being great isn't what I want. Depression likes to feed itself, so I think that having someone with a good disposition around "makes it angry" so to speak. I hope this makes some sort of sense. I would just give it some time to see if he comes back around. He might just need a little space until the dark clouds lift.
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I am nice, but I am not a cheerful person. I know depression and anxiety, cause I suffer from it severely. I was always in a dark hole and because I have nobody that cares around me, I was hoping so bad for someone to reach out to me cause I felt so lonely, and hopeless, that I felt like I needed someone to show me that they cared. Sadly, none of my friends reached out to me, and none of them seemed to care, and because I know that hollow, painful, hopeless, insecure feeling, I try my best to reach out to those that are in a black hole. With that said I never looked at life as great and he knows that. I even said I feel like I am existing not living. I am not one of the types that thinks life is great and it just has small obstacles that we have to get through, blah blah blah. I did help him through him tough time like 4 months ago and he seemed appreciative of me. I do not take offence at what you are saying, so please don't apologize, but I guess I assumed that anytime when he has a problem he will come to me cause I helped him in the past and gave him a whole new perspective on his situation. I haven't contacted him cause I do think he needs his space, but I do want to help him but he is not reaching out to me, but I guess you are right. I just have to wait for the dark cloud to lift. Thank you for answering! I do appreciate it!
