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Originally Posted by Themeanreds
I really have to agree with this. I do not want try to garner the extra energy to try to look on the bright side, or to try to make my miserable state sound better than it is. During an episode, the episode is all consuming, (at least for me), and anything else really takes a back seat.
If a person has no energy to bathe, prepare meals, or even get out of bed, friendly communication with others goes out the window.
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That is true! I am like that as well! But I guess because he told me his problems months ago and I helped him through it, I figured then he would tell me his problem now. That is what is confusing me. Cause if he never really reached out to me then I wouldn't think by him being distant and such is unusual, but I guess cause we are close friends, I thought he would tell me what's going on, but I don't know he might be in a different state. He might be in that kind of state where he doesn't want to talk about it, where as before he was in a different state of mind where he just really needed to talk and needed help. If that is the case then I will let him go and have him reach out to me on his own, but what I am most fearful of if it's personal. Like if he personally just doesn't want to talk to me, or doesn't want to be my friend anymore. That is what I am most fearful of. Thank you for comment and I am sorry you went through that, I know how horrible it is. Love and hugs!