Thank you all for the replies!

I think what made me feel uncomfortable is the initial interpretation that T being 'real' with me would bring too much of him personally in to the room, and I much prefer the boundaries of therapy to be clear. But the more I think about it I think as some of you have said, it is actually a case of him beginning to better understand me and so now knows when and how to respond more appropriately. I also wonder about how he worded it and the sense I got of it being my fault or about soemthign I was or was not doing, I think I will talk to him about this on Thursday when i see him.

There are absolutely no blurring of the lines of T/patient and friendship or otherwise, I work in the field and am clear about my own boundaries with clients and therefor have been very clear about them with my T.

I do believe that he is genuine in his wish to help me achieve a life where I thrive......eventhough I cringe even thinking that because I also still do not believe that I deserve that.......yet.

Thanks again