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Originally Posted by middie
It must be a very difficult time for you......your head must be full of unanswered questions and your emotions very raw.......could you try sitting down with him somewhere to talk......somewhere neutral where you both have to keep control over your emotions and can talk rationally and calmly and listen to each other.........or maybe with a counsellor and work through your problems......its difficult and no quick fix......but if you love each other worth the long hall.......good luck and let us know how things are going for you.......you will get plenty of support on here.....sending you a hug x
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Really thanks middie.. if we sitting down to talk it ended in fight.. i dont know why its happening.. he is saying that he is as pure as gold to me but i refused to accept that.. may be he is good enough now.. but i dont have trust on his. i loses all trust on him. what is should now? basically i am from poor family so i dont have enough money to go counseling.. i am the one who leading my whole family.. i love him still but no trust.. one trust has been broken no way to get it again..that is happening in my life.. day by day its going too bad.. today he feels like that "why i should call you to make myself irritated" he says...
He says" i will never call you until you get trust on me.. if you want come with me with full trust, i will there for you. sure i wont talk with any girls without your knowledge.. i will be true sure"
what is should? i damn sure that he wont be without me.. but in my point of view" he only broken his trust so he only responsible to that trust back" why i should get his trust by myself? i am getting so tired to investigate his daily activities..what he is doing? to whom he is talking? to whom he is going out? like this.....
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