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Old Dec 09, 2013, 03:11 PM
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Originally Posted by MotownJohnny View Post
H4M - to clarify, I am not married. Never have been. I have not even dated for years. The last woman I was interested in broke my heart. We were coworkers, we became the very best of friends, and then had feelings for each other. I dare say we had an emotional affair. But, she wanted to make it physical, she actually asked me to meet her in a hotel parking lot and wanted me to go inside with her. I said no - the wrinkle, she was married, to a real creep - emotionally abusive, cold. But she was a really devout Catholic and would not leave him. So, it ended.

I am keeping this from my three older sisters and two bil's - I think they would hate me forever.
MTJ, Makes more sense, knowing this, about you. My apologies, for believing you were married.
I was granted, an annulment, I see, your exes excuse, as nothing more than an excuse. That's tough, being in a position, with a married person, where it's an emotional affair.
I hear you, about siblings. Most people, have a tough time, with siblings, I don't even qualify, my 16yr younger half-sister, as worth my labelling her a sister. Not, for all she's said to me, through the years.
Yeah, your sibs finding out, I hear 'ya. It would probably, give them some type of upper edge, and they'd probably vilify you, for the rest of eternity. As though, considering the abuse you endured growing up, haven't reason to also, perhaps some mi's of their own.