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Originally Posted by Truth in Ruin
This is what I feel/see... Mostly Grey. If I get angry, I still don't hate you. Matter of fact, I never hate you. I can see someone's good and bad qualitys at the same time, it never becomes just one of the two. I'm unable to devalue someone completely, because I can still see the good things about them, no matter how mad I am at the time. I am unable to put someone on a pedestal, because I know no one is ever perfect, and while I'm at it, no one is ever all bad. I can't bounce from love to hate, if I love you, it stays that way.
I know no one asked, but I just wanted to share how my mind works.
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Always welcome to share, my friend. Thing is this is ideal. But it's something BPD people struggle with. WE DO put people on pedestals or kill them in our minds because they are the spawn of Satan himself... and all this, about the same person at different moments in time. >.>
Thanks for this. You bring a lot of insight so never worry that "no one asked for my thoughts.." kind of thing.