Hey! Hmmm. I am wondering if he really understands the nature of your mental illness. I assume you are doing your best to cope with your illness and not to use it as an excuse.

If he truly resents you, then I also wonder if he would be a good match for you. Would he be willing to talk to a counselor with you? If he is not willing to understand you and to work with you, then that really worries me.