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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
One other thought about this. If the child is 18 mos old, a mother is pretty attached to her child and is still just learning to be a mom (if its her first especially). Introducing the baby to another female could easily be seen as a threat to her motherhood and no one's mentioned that maybe this is actually a smart thing to do in this case. I hope you all get my meaning. It is his child but it's not as simple at that age. People are very protective of their infants and toddlers and I can't judge them for this. Just a thought.
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Good point, and up to him, to express it, that way. Giving a timeframe, setting the OP's sons' questions an answer.
That's why I propose the OP word, this discussion, to express fear of not knowing he'd offer a long term stable environment, for her and the kids. Naturally, there's no guarantees in life, just between the excuses about the toddler, coupled with his parents lack of interest in meeting her, because their son has a less than stellar track record, I can appreciate the OP's questioning about ending things. It's just unfortunate her own children stand to be hurt, by all this.
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