I don't know as her being a T in a residential program is probably quite different than a T in private practice, but it kind of creeps me out a little to think of your T tying your shoes. No one has tied my shoes for me since I was about 5. In the grand scheme of things, I don't see this is a big deal, just be careful because it could maybe a red flag in overstepping boundaries. But she also said she loved you…so…I don't know.