I hate that first reason!! People just assume that because a man is good looking that he cannot be an abuser. In the work Ive done I constantly heard examples like "the girls are always all over my buddy so why would he have to rape someone?"
So many people still do not understand that abuse is about power and control.

Jessica

<font color=blue> You are in this snowglobe. It is encovered in glass and secure. But one day someone comes and shakes the globe and the pieces go flying everywhere. Now they will eventually settle but they won't be the way they were before and they can never be that way again. </font color=blue>