This kind of explains why you said last week that you had a rule to wake the other person up if you went to the bathroom at night? I didnt understand it then, but now i do. Thats a hard rule to make another person to live up to, so that the other person feels safe. Even if both of you agree to it. Its a hard rule to live by, very limiting. So i would say it means something is not right. If it were temporary, like right after somebody died or got attacked, maybe for a week or two, but ongoing i think would be a problem. And people cant live on just air. Some plants can, but they are very flimsy. Please take care.