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Originally Posted by growlithing
Well, it's kinda hard to take this out of context. She just tied my shoes. Yes, I did interpret it as a mothering thing. She does that in little ways. She was helping me prepare for an evaluation at my school to be allowed to come back next semester. It did feel like my mom helping clean me up for an event or something. She knows that I literally do see her as a mom and that's probably why she hesitated to question the boundaries with it.
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And this I think is the problem. She shouldn't have done it- were you tying your own shoes even an option there? I'd feel out of control, like a small child not even able to tie her own shoes let alone go through an evaluation.
I do think this is reenacting a pattern but not in a healing way.
