Zoloft or lamotrogine didnt affect my sex life much, but on the higher levels of zoloft (150mg+) it was difficult to get in the mood and finish off. It didnt bother me at the time but it would now days since I have a committed partner. Im on a much much lower dose of zoloft now and with my AP it is working pretty well with no sexual side effects.

I really like lamotrogine, but it was too expensive for me to stay on. It is a very good mood stablilser.

Keep a record of how you feel on each medication to look back on later. Sometimes you have to go for the less of the evils to get a med that works. Some side effects we do just have to put up with in order for stability unfortunately.